Community Guidelines

TeaSpill exists because women deserve a space that protects them. These guidelines are what keep it that way. They apply to every member, every room, every card.

Be Honest, Not Cruel

Radical honesty is what makes TeaSpill valuable. Say what you really think — about situations, patterns, behaviour. But there is a clear line between honesty and cruelty. Critique the situation. Do not attack the person.

Protect Anonymity — Including Others'

Do not attempt to identify another user. Do not share information that could expose someone else's real identity. Do not encourage others to identify a user. Attempting to unmask someone is a permanent ban offence.

No Hate Speech

Content that degrades someone based on race, ethnicity, religion, sexuality, disability, age, or body is not permitted. Full stop.

No Self-Harm Content

Content that glorifies, encourages, or provides instructions for self-harm or suicide is immediately removed. If you are struggling, we will connect you to real support.

No Men in Women's Spaces

TeaSpill is for women. Attempting to join under false pretences is a permanent ban. We verify through a combination of behavioural signals and a community trust system.

No Spam or Promotion

Do not use TeaSpill to sell products, solicit followers, or promote external content. Affiliate links, referral codes, and unsolicited DM outreach are all prohibited.

Reporting

If you see something that violates these guidelines, report it immediately using the flag icon on any card or message. Our moderation team reviews all reports within the hour.